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Barb Smith's avatar

I love this post as well as the fact that you have written it with such grace. In my life, I have moved nearly 40 times. Sometimes it was for school, sometimes it was for work and sometimes it was an opportunity to live in a place I loved. My family wasn’t close and I have no children. But the people I have met along the way and the places I have lived and shared with others have made my life rich. My friends live all over the world and although I don’t see them all very often, we do keep in touch and we do manage to connect on occasion. Sometimes I think I see life differently than people with deep family connections. Many people come and go through the doors of my life, taking what they need and giving what they can. Those moments seem like seconds of a lifetime but they always last long enough to warm my heart. My life has been, and continues to be, a wonderful journey and I value and treasure each and every place and person that has enriched my time on earth.

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Betsy O’HARA's avatar

One of the things we love about our small town Vila Real de Santo António, in the SE corner of the Algarve on the border to Spain, is the feeling of family here. Familial the locals call it. The grandparents playing an important role in raising the grandchildren, picking them up from school, occupying them during the long summer vacation, being an important part of their lives. The way it was once upon a time in America when the nuclear family was still the norm. The relationship to family is often underestimated when making the decision to move abroad. As Joni Mitchell sang, You don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. Your friends, who obviously adore exploring and new experiences, have made a momentous decision, returning to the fold, to nurture and be part of their family’s legacy. To end the state of feeling transient. A beautiful decision.

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